回台灣請客

  耶!  耶! 耶! 

再過 51 天我們要回台灣ㄌ喔

想到這個 我身體的不舒服就都好了

世偉也很期待喔

因為阿 我們回家去拍婚紗和請客  耶! 耶! 耶!

 

小毛 我要回家來了

歸寧的酒席在高雄

時間是 4/23 星期天中午

我希望能請多一些同學朋友

必近我很久都沒機會參加到同學會ㄌ

你可以幫我把消息放一放ㄇ?

我也需要通訊錄 寄給我一份ㄇ?

Thank you!!

 

好想參加小p的婚禮喔

什麼時候才會好起來ㄌㄟ

唉……….

從星期二手術到現在

我已經有整整六天沒出過門了

覺得好沮喪喔

這幾天紐約很冷

生命

這次流產事件似乎讓我對生命有了另一層面的認識

看著朋友們一個接著一個的懷孕生產

似乎是理所當然並應該順利平安的

雖然其中一位姊妹因為肝臟的問題在懷孕中期出了些狀況

但也與她們一家人一同經歷了神醫治的大能與祝福

所以當得知自己也懷孕了的消息….雖然是完全的意外

但心裡還是很高興並等待神順理成章的賜下祝福的寶寶

will,  神並沒有這樣應許

但是神垂聽了世偉和我每個晚上的禱告….我記得世偉是這樣pray

‘ 神阿 請祢保守coco整個懷孕的過程 將健康賜下並看顧coco與肚裡的寶寶  教導也預備我們成為討神喜悅的父母  教導我們順服主祢的帶領………..’

神應許了世偉的禱告 將不健康的授精卵自然的被淘汰掉

並一路保守包括手術的順利和之後的復原

 

我特別注意自己手術號的保養

因為我相信我們所信的這位神是又真又活, 垂聽禱告,　並喜悅祂中心的僕人的

正在預備世偉和我的一切

好教我們懂得珍惜祂所賜的一切

並知道這一切絕非偶然也並不是理所當然，而是出於神的恩典

I though I was strong….but I am not.

I keep on telling myself, "Don’t be sad. It’ll be ok."

But my tears are just rolling in my eyes and bluring my vision.

I realize how small and powerless we are.

I realize that when something are so precious and joyable in our heart could be easily taken away by God’s will.

Life is precious, and God would certainly bless us with new lives.

On the other hand, life is also fragile, and God is surely able to remove it at any moment.

I don’t seem to understand everything, but I know that I can’t pretend to be strong.

http://www.andiesisle.com/icanonlyimagine.html

Miscarriage

It is a very sad news….

Wei and I went to the OB-GYN Dr. Chen’s yesterday for the 2nd check up.

Unfortunitly, the egg has stopped growing.

The size was still the same as the 8-week period, and we couldn’t find the heart beat.

When I listened to Dr. Chen’s report, I seemed not to undersstand English all of the sudden.

I was shocked by the fact.

Looking at the ultrasound, it was still the shape of an embroy instead of a human being.

Without seeing the heart beat, I couldn’t feel the sign of life.

For some reason, I feel relived.

Maybe, my body and my heart knew it before I did, since I couldn’t feel the gender as all prenantal books say.

 

Wei is very suportive. He even makes funny faces and talking silly to make me laugh.

Thank you, my love.

We are sure that God has planned and taken control of our lives. For that, we have trust in Him for giving us the best according to His will.

Thank you, God.

 

FYI, this link contains great info on Understanding Miscarriage.

http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/pregnancy/pregcomplications/252.html

A very cold week!

It is going to be a super cold week. Finally, the winter-like weather is back. It was so warm for couple weeks here in NY and people started wondering if Spring was already here in January! Evidently, the winter is still around. What I like about NY is that there are four seasons here. It is gorgous when Spring is taking over. When it happenes, you’ll know. Just by standing on the street. When you are standing by the trafic light, and the wind blows, you smell the beauty of new lives, you smell the aroma of earth, you know, spring is here.
But before having spring in the city, the winter is still on demand and acting strong and all that!!

The best time-wasting game!

Thanks for the link sponser-Chris T.
Here is a very fun game to share. Please go to below link:

http://www.ferryhalim.com/orisinal/g3/bugs.htm

Have gun!!

Mom visiting JCCC in 2005

I love my mom visiting us. When she’s around, me and Wei are surely taken cared and feeling secure for some reason. In year 2005, mom came before the wedding to help on preparations. Well, we, as the way to love her, took her wherever we went and did…..mainly church activities!

May God speak to our parents and brother and sister. Hope the Holy Spirit would open their heart and guide them the the way of salvation!

WE LOVE YOU MOMMY!!
AND WE LOVE YOU, DADDY, TOO!

Lower back pain

Speaking of tough pregnancy, it was getting worse couple days ago when my lower back was totally tighen up. It happened while I sat in frount of the computer replying an email on Tuesday night. Just an email-time, my lower back start hurting. It was quite painefule, and I took Wei’s advice to go to bed right away. Stretching did not help, and I didn’t sleep well that night. On Wednesday morning, I had to call in sick because I couldn’t get up from the bed. Wei had to hold my body and lift me up……….I am so lucky to have Wei. Anyway, I took a warm bath and rested for Wednesday. Well, despite the fact that I need to get my pay check, I did need to move around in order to losen my muscles up; therefore, I was back to work on Thursday.

Thank you Wei for being so patiently loving and supportive. Thank you for acting funny and making me laugh when my mood-swing is activated. Thank you for taking care of me and loving me. I love you!!

So, I’ve learned something about lower back pain from my boss-Chris T. Thank you boss! Anyway, when you are experiencing muscle pain in your lower back, you may try below possible solutions:
1. Take a warm bath. Add your favorite Remember, the water shouldn’t be too hot. Take your time in the water. Just relax your muscles and yourself.
2. Must walk around. The worst thing for you while lower back pain is happening is being a couch potato. You have to slowly move around. Bacause sitting is only going to tighten your muscles up. However, moving around will get you circulated.
3. Keep your lower back warm. You can warm a towel up and put it right on the spot that hurts. (Even better when your very sweet husband works on it for you.) Or get a hot-water-bag.

I am feeling much better now. Thanks Chris for sharing the precious info with me after seeing your wife having 3 children. Hope above info would provide some help for someone out there.

Have a good pregnancy! 🙂